Anger Management for Toddlers

Spencer needs anger management. The tantrums are getting worse. He threw a Nutcracker at the Grandfather clock and luckily didn't break the glass. He throws a tantrum when I don't understand what he wants or if I won't give it to him. Spencer gets frustrated while playing with a toy or while trying to do something and when he can't do it how he wants, he screams. His scream is a high pitched scream that makes your head instantly throb. Sometimes he does an angry dance around the room while making frustrated nosies. He rolls on the ground or just lays face down on the carpet kicking and screaming. He just gets so angry. My child needs anger management and I need an aspirin and a nap.